How do you make dating more fun?

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  2. https://statesmen.jouwvindplaats.nl/
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  4. https://statesmen.jojojanneke.nl/
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  7. https://statesmen.linkminer.nl/
  8. https://statesmen.champion.be/
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  10. Well.. over 6 months in, and July in all aspects of game was basically my worst month since I’ve started.
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  12. It’s the first month this year that I didn’t go on a single date.
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  14. It’s also the first month this year that I didn’t even really make out with chick.
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  16. I didn’t get any notches, and probably got the least amount of phone numbers this month than I have in any of the past few months…
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  18. I feel like I’ve moving backwards instead of forward.
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  20. I don’t even have any prospects right now, really….   what the hell is going on?
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  22. It’s not like I haven’t been approaching.  I’ve definitely approached over 100 sets this month probably.  No different than previous months really.  Sets haven’t been hooking as much/often as they normally do for me though, it seems like.
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  24. I think part of it is, I’m in my head a lot more now.  After blowing so many opportunities early in the year (honestly, if I had tight game, my notch count this year would easily be in the double digits – that’s how many opportunities I’ve blown this year).  After blowing so many opportunities early in the year, I cranked out the studying more, I read Mystery Method, watched the whole first season of The Pick Up Artist (I had never seen it – I don’t watch reality TV, or really much TV at all for that matter), I developed routines, and I went out and approached.
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  26. Am, I going backwards?
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  28. To be honest, even though I approached probably about the same amount of girls as I normally do in month, there were some things I didn’t do.
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  30. I didn’t touch girls as much – not much kino.
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  32. I didn’t go for any kisses – no kiss closes.
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  34. And, I went for numbers a lot less – less number closes.
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  36. Why?
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  38. I honestly don’t know.  But, if I had to guess, I’d say I was in my head a lot more, worrying a lot more about “not telegraphing too much interested” or “trying to make her chase me” and shit like that.  I still don’t have my push/pull game down very well at all.  I’m either pushing too much or pulling too much.
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  40. In past months, I’ve been overally aggressive, grabbing and touching chicks earlier than some of them were ready for, going for kisses, numbers and even bangs without having much comfort and getting a lot of rejection at those stages (not a lot of rejections on the numbers, just a lot of flakes though).  So, this month, I toned all that back, and really didn’t go for much of them at all….
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  42. I just approached girls, joked around with them and left.  Without showing much interest at all, at least not the aggressive interest that I’m used to showing.
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  44. Even my approaches, I chilled out on shit.  Mystery made a big deal about approaching sets that are walking toward you when you are walking toward them, so I did less of that.  Although looking back on it, I’ve had success with those sets – Butterface and February Fling were both sets like that.  February Fling slowed down and let me approach her and I turned around and walked with her for a short time, before excusing myself and getting her number.  Butterface, I just got her whole set (4 of them) to stop in the middle of street and talk to us.
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  46. In the past, I’d actually chase girls down in order to approach them (my intent was clear), I did less of that in July, being a lot more calculated.  In the past, I’d make it clear who my target was very early on into the set, but in July, I spent more time trying to engage the whole set, and a lot of times lost my target’s interest, because her friend would seem more into me than she did.
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  48. I don’t know man.  I feel like my game was way off in July.  I feel like I didn’t do much well at all.  I probably got as many numbers the whole month as I’d usually get in a night.  Should I go back to collecting numbers like they’re candy?   I mean, honestly, just collecting numbers is pretty easy.    But, most of them will turn out to be flaky.
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  50. I’m just at a point where I feel lost.
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  52. I don’t even know what I’m doing.  I know where I want to be, but I feel lost about how to get there.

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