The Butterfly Effect in Free Dating
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Were I in a Taken In Hand relationship, and he was choosing my clothing, I would expect my husband to keep in mind that the clothing I wear now is worn for two reasons: ease and comfort. I refuse to wear clothes that press on my scars or unnecessarily compress surgical areas. I will not wear anything skin-tight as I feel ugly and gross in them, and no amount of compliments will change that.
If hubby were choosing my clothes, he would have to keep in mind that, while he may enjoy looking at me in them, if they cause me pain or discomfort, he is violating my security, and I certainly won't enjoy that.
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2004 Oct 20 - 02:27 | reply to this comment
It seems to me that although your husband is head of the household he does know how to pick something that is a nice compromise between what you would pick and what he wants to see you in.
So that makes it easy to give in. For myself, no one picks my clothes but if he wanted to pick some of them, I wouldn't care. However if I were told I couldn't take a certain job, no, I wouldn't care for that and there'd be trouble.
And if I were never to pick my own clothes again without his input? I would not care for that either. Most men have their taste in their mouths. You're lucky your husband is different.
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