Painful or erotic?

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  10. Sure, some of the women I have dated aren't interested in me leading - that's fine and not stopped us being friends but we'd never be anything closer.
  12. Theo: I detect a whiff of bluster when a man treats his dominance as the exercise of simple right.
  14. I rule by acclamation, not decree. That's not bluster, anymore than a man who wants a woman of a certain intelligence level, or matching humour or any other compatibility.
  16. by Interesdom on 2005 May 24 - 16:55 | reply to this comment
  17. Sin, Sensuality, Pain and Penance, and Ecstasy
  18. Oh, how fascinating is this thread started by Noone. Such differing views are expressed.
  20. But surely there is a great difference between being spanked and being beaten? They both might be painful but they are very different. Cathryn Hepburn was once asked if she was spanked as a child. She replied, very firmly, “No! I was beaten.” She was clear what the diffence was.
  22. There is a vast difference you know. If I were asked if my husband beats me I would say, “No!” If I were asked if he spanks me, I would say, “Yes.” This does not mean that I want to be spanked, or that I enjoy beiing spanked. He can control me in any way he feels is right, and long as he controls me with love. He can spank me painfully, but I know he is not being brutal. It is not abuse. He is not beating me. The occasional spanking may be very painful and thorough, but it is not a beating, and it is certainly not a thrashing. Not for a second does he stop loving me. I know that even though he sometimes makes my bottom smart considerably.

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