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Respectfully, Race

by poco on 2005 Jan 13 - 01:07 | reply to this comment
Is that date correct?
Do you mean December 2003? I'm pretty sure it was not last month that you started. ;-)

Taking a woman in hand is not an act of selfless sacrifice. It is a loving thing between the two of you. There is no reason why you should not take pleasure in it.

Yes, it feels manipulative to put a woman over your lap or to take charge of her or make decisions for her. But, as long as you are doing it in a way that is good for her and that she wants and needs, go ahead and enjoy it.

Allow your ego to get stroked by the process. Enjoy the look and feel of her round, soft, feminine body. Savor the sounds of her crying and the feel of her tears on your neck. ‘Take’ her every once in a while. Ask her to do things for you.

Don't get carried away, i.e. don't turn her into a servant or degrade her. On the other hand, do not feel that you need to be a monk or to deny yourself the pleasure of the whole thing.

If being Taken in Hand is something that she wants and/or needs, and if you are giving her what she wants, the pleasure of doing it is part of your reward.

The subject article came at the right time. I will take your advice and revel in the pleasure of these experiences--truly erotic. Abner

by Abner on 2005 Jan 12 - 04:40 | reply to this comment
I want him to enjoy it!
Great article, Carlf! That's exactly how I want my husband to feel towards me and our Taken in Hand relationship! If he didn't enjoy being the dominant person in our relationship, or if he wasn't pleased when I serve and obey him, then I wouldn't be a very happy wife!